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Ownership (and boundaries)

Posted on August 18, 2023 by mirjam

Certain Instagram channels I used to follow would often post things about “cutting toxic people out of your life.” Now I agree that sometimes it is healthy and necessary to put some space between you and certain people or person. But I hate the way these messages put the full blame on that other person.
The way I see it, there are no bad or “toxic” people. Only bad synergy or energy between certain people. Relationships are made up of two sides. So take ownership of yours.  Continue reading →

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You be you and I’ll be me.

Posted on May 23, 2021 by mirjam

Years ago, I had this dream in which my best friend and I were going to switch bodies for one day. We both wanted to and were quite excited though perhaps a little nervous about it. Her only instructions to … Continue reading →

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